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The churning, and out-of-bounds, topic of period sex is still surprisingly fraught. The natural bodily function is something so forbidden that many people refuse to partake in coition to avoid an up close and personal confrontation with uterine lining. Periods resemble an onslaught of discussion — from poverty to class, to health, and pain. Procreating and menstruating can be an alienating experience, especially for individuals who are non-binary. Classifying a normal, natural, monthly bodily function as dirty or messy can further estrange someone.
Normalizing period sex is as natural for me as the sanguine fluid that rests sticky between my thighs. To understand my adoration for menstruation , we have to understand my privilege. In short, I miss the hell out of period sex. Instead, I want to celebrate the crimson clots that can result in a heightened rosy sexcapade. Moreover, period sex is beneficial for health factors. Migraines and period cramps are alleviated , and lubrication is increased when fornicating on your cycle. There have been reports of increased arousal during periods.
A University of Virginia, Charlottesville study found that cis-women were more interested in sex and had a greater orgasm mid-cycle. When a partner wants to dive in, my senses are heightened. However, countries like Australia, the UK, and some U. The products include douches, washes, wipes, medicine, tampons, and p.
The industry is capitalizing on menses to retain femininity. Most wanted to if I wanted to. One time, I didn't know I was about to start my period and was having sex with a new partner. When we were finished, I realized there was blood all over him and his white sheets. I was mortified and started crying. He comforted me and acted like he did not care one bit. He just changed his sheets and was so casual about the whole thing. Why does our response to period sex differ from when we are covered in seminal fluid? One stains, yes.
But both are liquid, and both are sexy. One is taboo, the other is expected. In short, both are normal — sheets can be washed. However, when she was asked to perform cunnilingus on a partner, she experienced initial anxiety.
I was still kinda grossed out by it for some reason. After a five-minute bathroom break hyping myself up to do the task, it was not bad and actually a pretty cool experience. I obviously had no problem fingering her or using a toy while she was on her period. Our public aversion to menstruation is unyielding. Internalized misogyny, the mystery of it all, and the parallels to sex have occupied a space in our society that shames the period and halts its presence in our vocabulary, and bedroom. Nevertheless, the period prevails. My adoration and open nature towards period sex aren't necessarily shared by all, at least publicly.
Period porn is practically non-existent ; however feminist porn directors like Erika Lust are sparking up meaningful discourse. Why are golden showers prevalent in the porn industry but a face smothered with red blood seen as disgusting? But brands like Flex , a tampon company whose product is created to be worn during sex, are eradicating that notion and opening up the narrative for the publics perception. No need to retract, no need to explain. I get on top, wetter than wet, and I enjoy my beautiful, dripping, and incredibly biological vessel.
Life is hard, but it's better when you're not alone. Nicole Lane Erin Khar. Menstruation is a tangle of stigma. What are the health benefits of period sex? How do we overcome the stigma of period sex? There are no apologizes with period sex. If you like this article, please share it! Your clicks keep us alive! Articles You'll Love.
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One man has opened up about his obsession with period sex in very graphic detail